Assalamualaykum, Have you ever encountered this situation, Both husband and you are already in wudhuk, getting ready for solat. And suddenly, both accidentally touched each other. And as almost always, husband puts you as the culprit whom nullified the wudhu' which warrant for another ablution again. And you sulk. I guess, this situation occurs in almost every muslim marriage. In Islamic teaching there are two school of thoughts regarding this matter: 1) According to the strong beliefs of Imam Syafiee, the wudhu' is nullified when a men touches a women, be it on purpose or by accident. And his stand is based on the ayatul Quran which says if you touches a woman and there is no water around you therefore you need to perform the tayammum (using dust from the sand or soil as a replacement fro water). The understanding of the words of Allah is based on tafseer of Ibnu Mas'ud. 2) Another school of thoughts came from the Imam Maliki and Abu Hanifah and it is based on
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